This can be a big, contentious issue between the two big competing schools of Buddhism but we handled it quite nice.
I was more confrontational about this in my youth, compared to this video.
My 2012 video on this was my most popular video of all time, out of 3,000+ videos, called "What is Wrong with Buddhism" at https://www.bitchute.com/video/pXpvyvhN6C0z/